Behind

It’s deep summer.  Our blogging heroine (BH) has realized she’s out of time.  School starts in less than a month, and last Monday morning dread filled her heart.  She doesn’t have time to write, but agreed to a quick interview.

Ivey:  So.  You’ve had all summer.  What is the problem?

BH:  For one, I hadn’t even started thinking about school yet.  I always need to go through our books for the coming school year, put away last year’s stuff, and order anything I need.  Norris Public Schools called me and asked if Katherine was really coming this year, since I hadn’t sent in her New Student Form, which I didn’t have.    I actually did get her immunizations taken care of before I left for Vegas, so they would actually let her in the school.  Unfortunately, I was even more behind with Maddie’s shots, and she had to receive six of them.  I mean, I was behind.

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Ash and Kat before the big Jonas Brothers concert.  Kat loved it.  Ash…went.

Ivey:  Back up.  Katherine is going to public school?  Really?  I thought you were a die-hard homeschooler.

BH:  I do homeschool, but my identity is actually in Christ, not where my children go to school.  I try to do what I think is best for my kids, and Katherine, her father, and I think this is best.  She is taking 3 classes in the afternoons at Norris, and 2 at our homeschool cooperative.  None at home.  It will be strange, but I’m sure I’ll figure out what to do with all those extra minutes.

Ivey:  Back up again.  Vegas?

BH:  Yes.  I know.  I have the impression people don’t think I’d choose Vegas as a vacation destination.  I must be pretty transparent.  However, since my husband wanted to go to a woodworking convention, and I like my husband, I decided to go.  I filled my days with gawking at immense, sprawling casinos (the Mirage covers 120 acres), while Marcus compared cabinet software.  From my point of view, I got the better end of the deal.

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Yes, an actual picture of our blogging heroine in the Bellagio.  She stood here a long time, as it was 112 degrees outside.

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Best thing I saw in Vegas.

Ivey:  Why else were you so stressed out this week?

BH:  Quarterly tax returns are due next week, and I was a bit, or maybe a lot, behind.  Really behind.  I also do the books for the homeschool cooperative, and I was, for want of a better word, behind.

Ivey:  What did you do this summer?

BH:  Not sure what I did when I was home.  Laundry?  I cooked a little.  Mowed some.  Not sure about the rest.  I gave my pastor grief on Facebook, but I don’t think that took up the rest of my time.

Ivey:  What does the rest of the summer look like?

BH:  A lot more of this:

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And this:

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BH:  In my defense, someone gave me the corn to freeze.  But the 2 rows of potatoes – I brought that on myself.  I noticed my potato-digging accomplice took a picture of the rubber duck potato:

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BH:  The tomatoes are just starting to ripen.  That means canning season is almost upon us.  I mean me. Oh, yes.  Why do I do this to myself?  Ouiser says it best in Steel Magnolias:


Annelle:  Why do you grow them, then?

Ouiser:  I’m an old southern woman (not quite).  We’re supposed to wear funny hats (I do), and ugly clothes (my gardening  clothes are not attractive), and grow vegetables in the dirt (that’s me).  Don’t ask me those questions.  I don’t know why, I don’t make the rules.

Ivey:  Besides canning, is anything else on your agenda before school starts?

BH:  I have wanted to paint my dining room, but haven’t felt like I’ve been home long enough to tear into it.  Ashley pledged to help me before she flies the coop.  So we’ll probably paint my ultra-traditional dining room a lovely shade of nontraditional blue.

Ivey:  Flies what coop?

BH:  Ashley is packing up her clothes and books, which is all she needs, and moving in with Grandma.  I’ve grown accustomed to the idea, I guess.  Our biggest problem now is book ownership.  Half of “her” books are mine.  I actually let her have my nice hardcover of  Jane Eyre today, she looked so big-eyed and needy.  Of my book, that is.

Ivey:  What about the younger girls?  What are they doing?

BH:  They are helping with projects around the house, getting a swim in now and then, and have started playing together again.  I had all this stuff “planned” for them to do this summer, but then wondered what on earth I was thinking, as far as expense and time.  Eventually their creative juices got the best of them, and they started this:

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BH:  The Polly Christian Church, Pastor Prince Charming, presiding

Ivey:  Is that sacrilegious?

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BOG:  The Polly Modern Art/Cafe Shop, and…

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…Bill’s Bar and Grill.  Creative juices, yessirree.

Ivey:  Hmmm.  Thank you for your time.

BH:  Glad for the break.



Memories

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As I watch Ashley turn into (or is already) a beautiful young woman, it is good to look back and remember how far she has come.

I remember this phase vividly.  Ashley was constantly dressing up, usually as a boy, and doing music videos.   I was perplexed, wondering if this was normal, should I be worried, should I forbid it, what is causing this, would her friends’ mothers be perplexed if they knew their daughters were also dressing up like boys at my house…

…but it passed.  There seems to be no residual effects from her dressing-up-like-a-boy-and-making-music-videos stage, either.

Parents need to pick their battles, and it is sometimes difficult to tell which ones to pick, especially with your first children, until the crisis has passed.  I would say I picked many more battles with my first child than the second, third or fourth ones.

In retrospect it seems okay that I didn’t pick the above battle.  It sure made for entertaining pictures and videos for future blackmail.

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I barely took this picture in time.  So, so tasty.  Thanks, Katherine.

Hinrichs’ Guide to Fort Robinson

Marcus and I have planned on going to the Black Hills for several months.  We needed something easy.  The Black Hills qualify as “easy” because you can drive there in a day (about 10 hours), and you don’t have to do much when you get there (besides see the faces on Mt. Rushmore).  This would differentiate this trip from the last two years’ vacations, when we drove all over southwestern Colorado and Washington, D.C.

Oh, yes.  I bet you are wondering why my title says this is about Fort Robinson.  Or maybe you are used to my free-flowing style, knowing that I will eventually get to the point.  Or not.

While planning for the trip, Marcus said he would really like to visit Fort Robinson again.  He had gone there in high school for a family reunion.  He fondly remembered the chuck wagon and horseback riding.

When Marcus mentioned this, my inner voice said, “Ick.”  My inner voice protests whenever someone suggests something that requires:

A. Work on my part, and/or

B.   Something  I really don’t want to do.

Since one purpose of my husband is to sanctify me, it seems like he is the one that most often triggers the whiny inner voice.  When I first got married, I didn’t have an inner voice.  Only an outer voice, that voiced its opinion immediately and often.  After 17 years of marriage, I have learned to ignore my inner voice, unless it has any significance after time, prayer and pondering.  Usually, it doesn’t.

Besides this, Marcus wanted to drive through the sandhills.  A different relative always talks about how much she loves the sandhills.  I barely look up when Marcus compliments them when we drive by on I-80.  I usually nod in agreement, and get back to my book.  If I happen to be driving, they don’t even get a nod.  I’m too busy man-handling the suburban,  checking  the camper in the rear-view mirror to make sure it’s still behind me, and wondering whether I should pass a truck with the 50 mile-an-hour gale broadsiding me.

Well…

Shockingly enough, I was wrong.  As soon as we turned northwest at Ogallala, I was shocked at the rocks and grassy slopes of the sandhills.  Yellow flowers were everywhere.  Wow.

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One of the main reasons the sandhills looked so appealing must have been the abundant rainfall they’ve had this year, as evidenced by the Hoke’s Cafe parking lot in Ogallala.

And Fort Robinson?  Beautiful buttes surrounded a large campus of brick 2-story homes, previously officers’ living quarters.  Many of the lovely homes now have rooms you can rent while you stay there.  There were also museums, a playhouse, horse stables, an activity center, a pool, the area for the bi-weekly rodeo, and other historical buildings that have been recreated for tourists.  They’ve done a top-notch job.  By the way, I am not a country-western music fan, and I liked it anyway.

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The highlights for us were the horseback ride into the buttes, and “Annie, Get Your Gun,” the musical we attended.  Black Hills Vacation 2009 047

Marcus loves westerns, and I know he was pretending he was the Outlaw Josey Wales or some such heartless character while we trudged up the butte.  Marcus almost didn’t go, because the last time he went horseback riding, he was sore for a week.  I’m not sure what was sore, due to his scrawny backside, but I probably didn’t need to point that out.

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This very patient cowboy rode next to Rebecca most of the time, ready to catch her if/when she fell off.  We were worried because she couldn’t quit cackling, no matter how serious the threat.  I’m not sure how she held on, because she had to be weak from laughter.  But she did.

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Katherine made sure it was glaringly evident that we were city slickers, via her pie-plate earrings and huge sunglasses.  If that wasn’t a tip-off, the kids filling out their questionnaires about how much riding experience they had would have done it.  Did I mention they all cackled insanely during the questionnaire AND trying to mount their horses?  (head shaking slowly)

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We were all surprised to see a pronghorn cross our path when we headed back to the stable.  Icing on the cake.

Watching Marcus pretend he was Clint Eastwood was pretty entertaining, but not as entertaining as “Annie, Get Your Gun.”  The acting, the voices and the script were pure delight.  Most of the actors came from North Carolina, and it looked like they put on a show every night of the summer.  If we would have stayed longer, I would have been tempted to watch one of the other two musicals they were doing on alternate nights.

On Sunday morning, we wanted into Crawford, 2 miles away, and found the First Congregational Church.  The pastor was a missionary from Utah, who felt called to minister in small communities who have no Biblical teaching.  He was great!  We felt humbled and encouraged that this man, and his family of 4 little girls, was preaching the gospel in Crawford.  God is at work.  Even in Crawford.

In our down time, Rebecca and I wandered around, enjoying the beautiful weather.

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This is actually the road on the way to the tent campground.  Like I said, alotta rain.

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Maddie joined us one afternoon and made Mermaid Island.

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We went on a scenic drive, where we viewed Fort Robinson’s own herd of buffalo.  I know they are really bison, but everyone calls them buffalo.

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I call them very large, and a bit intimidating.

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One of the only hiccups on the trip came from my inner voice escaping in Rebecca’s hearing.  Marcus was taken by a lookout we had seen, and wanted to have a picnic at the spot.  I had chicken thawed, and didn’t want to haul raw chicken up to the lookout, and try to cook it with no way to wash up anything.  Bleh.  But I said we’d go if Dad “really wanted to.”  As soon as Dad walked up, Rebecca informed him Mom thought hauling raw chicken up to the lookout was really gross, but I’d do it for him.  Thanks, Rebecca.

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We made the most of it, by penning up Maddie in the gate around the picnic table.  Not sure why picnic tables need protection.  It was best not to be negative at this point, so I acted like it was natural.

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Ashley tried to find her own seating, but found yuccas inhospitable.

The other hiccups came from cottonwood seeds.

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We had to try not to inhale or swallow them.  But the cottonwood trees surrounding us were majestic.

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Oh, yeah.  My point is that I really enjoyed our time at Fort Rob, and recommend it if you like history, musicals, buttes, bison, or horseback riding.  The end.

P.S.  I have many more bison pictures, but was advised not to put them all up.